I feel bad about that. Knowing me better would not be a good thing for her, but she seems to feel bad about it. Maybe for normal people that's an issue, wanting to feel connected to people. I usually feel the opposite, but the way she talks about her family I'm guessing she's not used to be around people who are such strangers to her.

"I know you're smart. You care about people because you think all people are worth caring about. You work hard but you're not, ah, obsessed with your work in an unhealthy way. You're resilient and strong but not... hard."